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Patriotism doubled?

I am a citizen - not one, but to two countries. And, proudly proclaim that it's a privelege.

My motherland, India. Growing up, one never felt that being patriotic is an emotion that was supposed to be exhibited in any way. Yes, there were Independence day celebrations, but never a thoughtful pause about the significance of the event. History books didn't do justice either. The only time that we showed an exuberance, was rooting wildly for our nation during cricket matches. That was then. Now, all that has changed.

After many years outside the country, my passion for the homeland has increased multi-fold. The joy that planning for a trip back home brings, the building of a bridge to catch up with relatives and friends. All in a weather that's as warm as it's people. And, ah, the excitement when the flight lands on the Indian soil - still the same, year after year.

Now, to the adopted home. First, to historic Boston. The initial years, it was just curiosity to explore a new place. No connection except the awe one felt walking down the downtown which reeked of history, a tribute to the freedom for struggle faced by this country. The famous universities that make the city proud. And, the colonial countryside, vineyards and the Cape. It took many years of stay to get a little attached to this land.

Then, came several visits to the Golden State. The sunny California. The tree-hugging, eco-friendly people, a vast landscape filled with nature, beckoned us to move. So, we did. After many years, the feeling slowly but surely started creeping that we're a part of this country. But, there was one day that it finally hit me. We were in a fourth of July parade in our city. I suddenly stared at the stars and stripes on the flag that i was proudly waving. That moment, it dawned that i loved this country as my own too.

So, how can you be patriotic about a land that can be called your homeland and a country that you have made a choice to adopt? Can you really shout 'Jai Hind' and 'God Bless America' with equal zeal and passion?

I think you can always do.....as long as you try to keep thy mind and heart - a bit open.

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